WHAT MEN WANT ?????

According to a recent report, the scent of a woman, long legs and intelligence turn men on. Is it the for the men here??

GO Figure
A fab figure has always been a turn-on for men. But there's no need for women to go on crash diets, for most men dislike skinny women. Says architect Sumit Mehra, "A great body always works for me. But she shouldn't be all skin and bones, neither should she be fat." Rohan Khilnani, film marketing executive, says perfect proportions are important. "A 34-28-34 is just right. I don't like females who are too skinny," he says. Shakira hips are also a great turn-on. Says builder Kush Kotwani, "I'd definitely do a double take over Kim Kardashian's butt."

HIGH on energy
Model Aryan Vaid says great looks grab his attention any time. "An attractive face is surely something that comes screaming out at you as a pre-requisite. About intelligence, who care?" he says. While entrepreneur Rohan K finds a woman who carry herself well attractive, yoga instructor Narayan Keita says a must have an elegant posture. "A sense of style is important. She should look good and be able to carry herself well in whatever outfit she wears," Anirudh says.


Smile Please!
You may think it's all about the body, but mot men say they find a great smile - whether a Mona Lisa one or a Julia Roberts beam - exciting. Actor Ashwin Mushran says a woman's smile and sense of humor turns men on. Vicky P, an associate, seconds the opinion, "A nice certainly smile makes me weak-kneed."

Got my eye on you
Eyes are not for poetry. Actor Chetan Hansraj feels expressive eyes have the ability to hypnotize. Mark Frank, an executive, says pretty ayes are abig turn-on for him. "You can say much with a single look and someone with doe eyes is sure to make heads turn," Says techie Dheeraj K.

Smart One
It's not all about body and looks. While student Lionel De Nazareth finds long, curly hairs sexy, real estate agent Robinson Fische thinks girls who enjoy swimming are great turn-ons. " It'd be attractive if a girl would share her fantasies with me." he says. But software executive Darshan Y would rather go for a smart gal. "I'm excited by a women who can drive, knows what the capital of Alaska is and appreciates good food. " he says





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The Overrated 'O'

Getting to the 'Big O' may not be the most crucial part of lovemaking. How important is the climax in the overall scheme of things?

MOST COUPLES today feel that a good relationship can be measured by the amount of great sex they're having.

Love Woes
27-year-old advertising professional Sheena Gawli has been married for two years. "I believe that a relationship depends on sex. Not because I am a nymphomaniac but if you love each other, there is no reason to not have a great sex!"
There is however another school of thought that believes that while finding the perfect man is important, the fact that he may not be a veritable stallion in bed should not be dampener: 22-year old student Rohini Guhu says, "My boyfriend and I are compatible, in bed it is I who end up doing most of the work." Psychologist Deepti Baliga explain that the level of sexual activity in a relationship is an individual priority.

EGO ISSUES
It is widely known that passion starts to dwindle a few years into the relationship. Article on how to "spice things up" are listed in magazine. 26 year old software engineer Rahul Acharya gives a male viewpoint. "I think physical intimacy is important."

PASSION WARS
There are some relationships where a cold sex life can be attributed to the man's conventional mindset. Psychiatrist Chrisann Almedia explains that some men don't feel it is important to satisfy the women. "Just because a women's orgasm is more elisive than a man's doesn't mean that her sexual drive has no science to it," complains 35 year old housewife Nanda Malhotra. Almeida explains that man and women are biologically different, as orgasming for a men is essentially physiological. While the perfect balance is still a few light years away. The elusive"O" is something that remains to be discovered together.

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Why are men going off sex?

Long working hours coupled with stress and depressin have taken a toll on relationships, says a survey

Men are increasingly going off sex due to stress, depression and the inability to talk about their problems, experts have claimed. A team at a relationship counseling service has reported a whopping 40 per cent increase in the number of lazy blokes, admitting that, despite being physically able to have sex, they don't have any interest.

"Men used to come to us with impotence but Viagra has sorted some of that problem. What we have is a lot of men who say, as women did in the fifties: I can have sex, but I don't want to. It's not rewarding. Such complaints were unheard of ten years ago. They tend to be men their fifties and married. It is a serious issue. It counts as a psycho sexual dysfunction. rather than just a relationship problem, because these men haven't simply gone off their partner but off sex altogether," a newspaper quoted Peter Bell of the organization as saying.

According to Prof Michael King of the Royal Free and University College Medical School in London, depression might be the the problem. "Men are most likely to suffer depression between the ages of 30 and 50. One of the explanations is that men are less able to talk about their problem than women, or express their emotions," he said.

Added Prof Cary Cooper of British Association of Counseling and Psychotherapy, "The work culture has gone from nine to five to extremely long hours, which makes for a very stressful life."

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Free Online Dating Services Made Easy

When dating, some people can go too far with letting out their tender sides and lose their next date. In the early stages of free on line dating, it can be a good idea to tread a little carefully with your single women feelings.

You may be going along fine and then suddenly they are backing off because you started on with a big sob story or something else that made them have second thoughts about wanting to spend time with you. You will need to be the judge, but some conversations are better left until you know your singles personals better. Many average looking guys spend half their lives looking to meet singles online.

Really, being a challenge will not help much in best a online dating service because there are different leagues when it comes to looks. And it's rare to play and win out of your league and that is that. I know you preach attitude in the end, and rightly so, but looks never cease to be important. I think your advice is great, and works best basically within your league . This is common sense, but the male ego has great difficulty staying in its own league, and denies reality.

Being filthy rich would of course make all the above beside the point, but the rich of the world do not need your advice either, and aren't reading your columns. Your dating guide should emphasize being realistic as a means of increased success, maybe more often than they do. The subject of looks is an interesting one in your writings. On the one hand you say that by being a Challenge, Mister Average can get single women.

In other Free online dating services articles, the reality Factor common sense dictates that women respond to attractiveness as much as men do, and that you have to be realistic about what you have as far as looks go. Other times you say that you can not guess a woman's motivations and therefore never know. Or you say that the 10s are really high maintenance implying that the average guy wouldn't want one anyway, and thus avoiding the issue.

Often, you ask how many times you see a beautiful babe with a ugly guy, as some form of encouragement to the average looking guys, I suspect.So from where I sit, you kind of dance around this issue of looks. I know Attitude and Challenge are your central themes, not looks, but it is an important factor in a online singles match.

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